For me the main points here are to realise that “bad” or “negative” situations aren’t ever a failing or punishment, they are a rebalancing, and reminder and a challenge to do things differently, to make decisions and choices that expand our experience.
We have the tools, experience and knowledge within ourselves, we do not need others to dictate our existence, make us fearful, or try to control us. While it is a good thing to get advice, and support from others, we must always make the choices that work for us. Nurture ourselves, love ourselves, respect ourselves, and the world will follow suit. If the world over time does not follow suit, re-evaluate ourselves, where are we judging ourselves etc. The outer world reflects the inner one, always and at all times. Don’t be afraid to make decisions and choices that benefit your soul and your joy. We are never alone and are always supported.
Have a good one!! Lotsa love Kxx
Card by card explanation
Psychic Tarot of the Heart: Sadness & Isolation: Sorrow, disappointment, trust and healing
In our world of polarity, every high has a low, and every low has a high. You can wallow in the lows and see yourself as having failed, or not being “worthy”, or useless etc., or you can see it as an opportunity to create something different.
For us to know what works for us and what we want in our lives, it is often useful to experience what we don’t want first. It helps to clarify things. Sometimes we can also be very stubborn, and very convinced of our own “rightness” and the ego of course doesn’t like things to change, so it takes a bit of work to get through to us – as Abraham – Hicks once said, “Don’t worry, if you miss it, it will get bigger”.
This card reminds us that disappointments and heartache are part of the ever-moving dance of life. You can not experience joy, without knowing what the lack of joy feels like, you can not know love, if you don’t know or haven’t experienced fear for example.
The lows are important too and need to be fully experienced as part of the process. Remember that you can never fail at anything, you can produce unexpected results though. The important thing to remember when you are faced with difficult or “dark” situations is that there is always a cause, a wound that needs healing, or simply a manifestation that didn’t quite work out as expected. One thing you can be absolutely sure of is that this too will pass. Don’t wallow and allow the situation to take you down. Take a breath, feel it, experience it, learn and heal from it, and let it go so the cycle can continue. Know too though that the highs won’t last forever either and neither are they meant to.
The Teachings of Abraham Well-being Cards
Every emotion I feel is guidance from my adoring Inner Being
Our emotional state of being is what guides us through our lives. If you are feeling good, you are in alignment, if you are feeling bad, you are out of alignment with your inner being or higher self. There are no hard and fast rules here – your inner being is yours and no-one else’s so while you can accept guidance from others, follow others’ examples etc, your experiences, choices and decisions are your own.
We all have an inner guidance system connected to the source that we can tap into. The basic rule is if it feels good go for it if it doesn’t feel good, don’t.
The Shadow develops when we suppress our guidance and block aspects of ourselves from ourselves and others.
Remember too that things change, so what your guidance was last year may change this year. The important thing is to not attach to any idea, person, thought or expression to the exclusion of all else – as you evolve, so does your soul and so does the world around you. Stay focused in the moment and adapt your experience to that moment with as much honest integrity as you can manage at that moment, accepting that another moment may be different.
The StJinx Arcana: The Crown Prince of Cups
This deck focuses on the masculine, particularly from a homosexual perspective, so all the female cards have been replaced with a masculine equivalent, representing the same energy, but a masculine manifestation of that energy.
The Crown Prince is an example of this – traditionally the Queen of Cups, he represents the epitome of the Divine Feminine in the arena of emotion. What I mean by that he is nurturing, caring, non-judgemental, and supportive.
He reminds us to not only accept the nurturing, caring support of others but also to nurture and care about ourselves. He could also represent a nurturing, caring, supportive man entering your space – probably a water sign – hee hee.
The Psychic Tarot: Movement, Choices, Decisions
This card indicates a period of change and movement. Decisions and choices to be made. It is important to,” go with your gut”, and trust your guidance, intuition, inner voice or whatever.
What feels like the best thing to do? Sometimes what feels like the best thing will not look like the right thing, maybe it is time to shift a paradigm or two, this may be uncomfortable but make the decision and go with it. You can always make another choice later.
Don’t faf and fart around, the longer you mind-fuck yourself over these decisions and choices, the longer you will be stuck in limbo. Take a few deep breaths and feel your way around, then make a choice and go with it. On the other side of things, don’t make snap knee-jerk decisions either. Think, consider, feel and then decide.
The Quantum Oracle: Family, Friends & Guides
This card reminds us that we are never alone, we are always surrounded, not necessarily only by physical beings, but also by spiritual ones. You can see these as passed friends, mentors, or loved ones, or guides, guardians and protectors, whatever works for you. If you are stuck with a choice or decision, trust yourself and maybe in your mind connect with someone you think may be able to help you – how would they have advised you do you think?
It is important here to listen or feel for their advice, but to make your own decisions. It is always good to get a second opinion, maybe even from someone you know will go against what you want. This can give a good overall picture, rather than just a one-sided view of things that can help you make a more balanced decision.
